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BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE WITHOUT BREAKING THEIR HEART
All breakups are bad, whether you are a jilted person or a jilted person. It is difficult to find the right words to say if you are the one who left. You may even have to resort to the stereotype “It’s not about you, it’s about me”. Since you are the one who has already left, the other party will suffer all kinds of pain; it will be the most mature behavior to reduce this to a minimum, not to turn it into a fight, and to do it without breaking your heart. If you need help, we have compiled for you ways to break up with someone without breaking their heart…
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UNDERSTAND WHY YOU WANT TO BREAK UP WITH HIM
The worst thing you can do is leave someone a moment of anger and regret it a few days later and try to get back together. This will only exacerbate the problem and lead to even more heartbreak. It is already difficult to go through this process once, do not let him go through the same things a second time. Before you break up with someone, make sure that you really understand and decide why you want to end things.
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STUDY WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY
Before you really give the parting speech, rehearse exactly what you are going to tell him. He will probably have a lot of questions, so it’s best to prepare with answers. Make sure you know what you want to say so that you don’t get wronged when you’re right.
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KEEP IT SHORT
You’re breaking up with someone you don’t need to turn this into a long monologue. The best parting speech is a short and simple one. Do not stretch it out and make it more complicated than it should be. This will make it less complicated and painful for the other person as well.
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BE GENTLE
Do not forget to be kind, even if the parting is caused by an inconvenience or anger. It’s a terrible thing to leave, and imagine that you are in his shoes. If he asks you why you broke up with him, explain it gently. You don’t want to make the situation any more difficult than it is for them.
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TALK FACE TO FACE
DON’T be the one to leave someone by text or phone! This will only aggravate the situation and will probably cause that person to be angry with you. You need to face the reality of the problem and leave him personally. Remember that this person once made you happy, and you chose him.
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DO NOT LEAVE OPEN DOORS
To soften the blow of a breakup, it’s easy to say something like, “let’s see how we’re going to feel in a few weeks.” If you’re breaking up with him, you should leave him like that. Although you may think that leaving a glimmer of hope will make things less heartbreaking, it will only worsen the situation as the weeks go by. He will continue to think about you and wait for news from you while you have opened a new page. And this will do nothing but prolong the life of the pain.
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Turkey's world-renowned organ transplant specialist. Dr. Demirbaş has 104 international publications and 102 national publications.
Physician's Resume:
Born on August 7, 1963 in Çorum, Prof. Dr. Alper Demirbaş has been continuing his work as the President of MedicalPark Antalya Hospital Organ Transplantation Center since 2008.
Prof. who performed the first tissue incompatible kidney transplant in Turkey, the first blood type incompatible kidney transplant, the first kidney-pancreas transplant program and the first cadaveric donor and live donor liver transplant in Antalya. Dr. As of August 2016, Alper Demirbaş has performed 4900 kidney transplants, 500 liver transplants and 95 pancreas transplants.
In addition to being the chairman of 6 national congresses, he has also been an invited speaker at 12 international and 65 national scientific congresses. Dr. Alper Demirbaş was married and the father of 1 girl and 1 boy.
Awards:
Eczacibasi Medical Award of 2002, Akdeniz University Service Award of 2005, Izder Medical Man of the Year Award of 2006, BÖHAK Medical Man of the Year Award of 2007, Sabah Mediterranean Newspaper Scientist of the Year Award of 2007, ANTIKAD Scientist of the Year Award of 2009, Social Ethics Association Award of 2010, Işık University Medical Man of the Year Award of 2015, VTV Antalya's Brand Value Award of 2015.
Certificates:
Doctor of Medicine Degree Hacettepe University Faculty of Medicine Ankara, General Surgeon Ministry of Health Turkey EKFMG (0-477-343-8), University of Miami School of Medicine Member of Multiple Organ Transplant, ASTS Multiorgan Transplant Scholarship. Lecturer at Kyoto University. Lecturer at University of Essen, Research assistant at the University of Cambridge .
Professional Members:
American Society of Transplant Surgeons, American Transplantation Society Nominated, Middle East and Southern Africa Council Transplantation Society 2007, International Liver Transplantation Association, Turkish Transplantation Association, Turkish Society of Surgery, Turkish Hepatobiliary Surgery Association.
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