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BOTH PARTIES NEED TO KNOW THE LANGUAGE OF COMMUNICATION WELL
Turkey Medicals member and hospital department Expert psychologist who drew attention to the importance of communication language for healthy relations, said, “Both sides should know each other’s communication language well. The critical point here is that one should not feel that one is constantly losing only one side in conversations,” he said.
Expert Turkish psychologist in Istanbul, he gave information on falling in love, giving value, reactions in relationships and their causes. Psy, which states that it is not so easy to fall in love, and when it is found, it is necessary to try not to lose it. Psy said, “If we don’t give the person in our lives the value they deserve, we will stop thinking about where we made a mistake after losing. We are afraid to face this feeling, we run away.It becomes even more difficult for individuals who have not completed their emotional development to face it,” he said.
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THE WOMAN TAKES THE FATHER AS AN EXAMPLE
Stating that the female and male brains work differently and their feelings are not similar to each other, Psy said, “Recently, an understanding has prevailed that normalizes men’s flatter thinking and emotionless behavior. We also lost our romantic feelings, thinking that love is only about erotic feelings. In a spiritual sense, women have stronger feelings, are more compassionate and selfless, and their brains work differently so that men have more conscience and more empathy is not an obstacle. It should be remembered that the woman takes the father figure, and if the figure is guided correctly, the woman chooses the right one, and this becomes a pattern that goes chained. A boy who does not see the love and compassion that he expects from his mother, does not coincide with the mother figure around him, the mother figure he lives in, does not allow himself to exist, also shows a predisposition to spiritual and physical violence against a woman when she grows up,” he said.
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ONLY ONE SIDE SHOULD NOT FEEL THAT YOU HAVE LOST IN CONVERSATIONS
Do not be afraid of women’s quarrels advises Psy. In the continuation of his statement said as follows:
“Unfortunately, it is not possible for men to concentrate on such a long conversation when a woman expresses herself in longer sentences in the face of events, and because she thinks more superficially, she perceives conversations as a threat. A woman wants to talk when she is angry, and therefore, when a man shuts up and takes care of other things, the woman becomes even more angry, she feels worthless. And he’s doing it because he thinks it’s a better solution when he leaves it to time and doesn’t talk. Therefore, both parties need to know each other’s communication language well. The critical point here is that; he should not feel that he always loses only one side in conversations. If a woman is talking, she still loves this man, in fact, she has hope, so she is talking, she is trying. If the woman who was arguing and fighting until that day has stopped talking, be afraid of it, because this woman is leaving now. This is actually the trick that men don’t understand. When women stop fighting for their relationships, she goes quietly and silently.”
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Turkey's world-renowned organ transplant specialist. Dr. Demirbaş has 104 international publications and 102 national publications.
Physician's Resume:
Born on August 7, 1963 in Çorum, Prof. Dr. Alper Demirbaş has been continuing his work as the President of MedicalPark Antalya Hospital Organ Transplantation Center since 2008.
Prof. who performed the first tissue incompatible kidney transplant in Turkey, the first blood type incompatible kidney transplant, the first kidney-pancreas transplant program and the first cadaveric donor and live donor liver transplant in Antalya. Dr. As of August 2016, Alper Demirbaş has performed 4900 kidney transplants, 500 liver transplants and 95 pancreas transplants.
In addition to being the chairman of 6 national congresses, he has also been an invited speaker at 12 international and 65 national scientific congresses. Dr. Alper Demirbaş was married and the father of 1 girl and 1 boy.
Awards:
Eczacibasi Medical Award of 2002, Akdeniz University Service Award of 2005, Izder Medical Man of the Year Award of 2006, BÖHAK Medical Man of the Year Award of 2007, Sabah Mediterranean Newspaper Scientist of the Year Award of 2007, ANTIKAD Scientist of the Year Award of 2009, Social Ethics Association Award of 2010, Işık University Medical Man of the Year Award of 2015, VTV Antalya's Brand Value Award of 2015.
Certificates:
Doctor of Medicine Degree Hacettepe University Faculty of Medicine Ankara, General Surgeon Ministry of Health Turkey EKFMG (0-477-343-8), University of Miami School of Medicine Member of Multiple Organ Transplant, ASTS Multiorgan Transplant Scholarship. Lecturer at Kyoto University. Lecturer at University of Essen, Research assistant at the University of Cambridge .
Professional Members:
American Society of Transplant Surgeons, American Transplantation Society Nominated, Middle East and Southern Africa Council Transplantation Society 2007, International Liver Transplantation Association, Turkish Transplantation Association, Turkish Society of Surgery, Turkish Hepatobiliary Surgery Association.
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