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WHAT IS THE SECRET OF RAISING A RESOURCEFUL CHILD?
“It makes the child incompetent for the parent to do what they can do according to the child’s age. If you want your child to gain skills and develop, don’t help him, support him,” said Turkey Medicals member and JCI Istanbul hospital department, Turkish Expert Clinical Psychologist, who listed the tricks of raising resourceful children.
There is a nuance between skill and decency. Talent is our ability to do something. It is innate and is not acquired by learning, but it makes it easier to notice and develop talent with education. However, it is our skills that we have acquired with skill, education and experience. We can do something that we have acquired skills with skill, because skill is gained by learning and experiencing.
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BE CAREFUL WITH THESE AGES
The easiest period for providing children with skills is the period of autonomy, which is from 1.5 to 3.5 years old. It is at this age that internal orientations are formed in children. The feeling that inner orientations feed on is the feeling of curiosity. The children, who has an intense sense of curiosity, wants to experience everything observed.
Skill acquisition is achieved through experience, where there are mistakes and repetitions. Given opportunities, despite his mistakes and repetitions, the child can only acquire skills.Therefore, what the child can do according to his age, what the parent does makes the child incompetent in many ways.
One of the internal orientations in the child is the perseverance of the child. The parent who stops the child who takes action with perseverance and does what the child can do on his own does not only prevent his child from gaining skills; he makes the child feel inadequate with this attitude, causes the child to show aggressive behavior, dulls the child’s sense of curiosity and takes away the child’s perseverance.
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RELEASE HIM ON PROBATION
A parent who wants to give his child skills should first set his child free under supervision. Helping your child to stick to instead of have to be present in social situations frequently provide frequent contact with nature and participation in activities that provide support fine and gross motor development, sports, and activities such as art and music meet and hook up with each new experience, qualification and valuation reinforcing their feelings of appreciation and self-confidence should give. Remember that under every skill that was not acquired in time, there is a sense of lost self-confidence.
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Turkey's world-renowned organ transplant specialist. Dr. Demirbaş has 104 international publications and 102 national publications.
Physician's Resume:
Born on August 7, 1963 in Çorum, Prof. Dr. Alper Demirbaş has been continuing his work as the President of MedicalPark Antalya Hospital Organ Transplantation Center since 2008.
Prof. who performed the first tissue incompatible kidney transplant in Turkey, the first blood type incompatible kidney transplant, the first kidney-pancreas transplant program and the first cadaveric donor and live donor liver transplant in Antalya. Dr. As of August 2016, Alper Demirbaş has performed 4900 kidney transplants, 500 liver transplants and 95 pancreas transplants.
In addition to being the chairman of 6 national congresses, he has also been an invited speaker at 12 international and 65 national scientific congresses. Dr. Alper Demirbaş was married and the father of 1 girl and 1 boy.
Awards:
Eczacibasi Medical Award of 2002, Akdeniz University Service Award of 2005, Izder Medical Man of the Year Award of 2006, BÖHAK Medical Man of the Year Award of 2007, Sabah Mediterranean Newspaper Scientist of the Year Award of 2007, ANTIKAD Scientist of the Year Award of 2009, Social Ethics Association Award of 2010, Işık University Medical Man of the Year Award of 2015, VTV Antalya's Brand Value Award of 2015.
Certificates:
Doctor of Medicine Degree Hacettepe University Faculty of Medicine Ankara, General Surgeon Ministry of Health Turkey EKFMG (0-477-343-8), University of Miami School of Medicine Member of Multiple Organ Transplant, ASTS Multiorgan Transplant Scholarship. Lecturer at Kyoto University. Lecturer at University of Essen, Research assistant at the University of Cambridge .
Professional Members:
American Society of Transplant Surgeons, American Transplantation Society Nominated, Middle East and Southern Africa Council Transplantation Society 2007, International Liver Transplantation Association, Turkish Transplantation Association, Turkish Society of Surgery, Turkish Hepatobiliary Surgery Association.
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