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STRONG SIGNS THAT TELL YOU ARE NOT READY TO GET MARRIED
– The decision to marry is one of the most important steps in your life. Before you make a marriage decision, you have to make sure that you are ready for such a big change in your life. And how do you know that?
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DO YOU WANT MORE AUTONOMY FROM YOUR PARTNER?
– We need everyone’s time alone and the freedom to make their own decisions. Once you get married, however, you need to strike a balance between prioritizing yourself and prioritizing your relationship. Autonomy is a wonderful thing and you certainly shouldn’t feel trapped by your love life.
– Being single is all about doing what you want when you want to, but those days are largely over when you get married. One of the challenges of marriage is to be ready to surrender from time to time. Marriage is not bondage, but sometimes it’s about making sacrifices. If you’re not ready to surrender from time to time, you’re not ready for marriage either.
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IF YOU’RE NOT TALKING ABOUT MONEY
– One of the most stressful aspects of marriages is managing the financial situation for household and lifestyle. It is very important to talk openly about material issues in marriage. If you haven’t talked to your partner about money, you’re not ready to get married. This is because money is one of the taboo issues we tend not to discuss in our society. How we feel about money and how we spend money reflects our values. Couples who do not discuss values are not ready to move on to the next stage.
– You should also trust your partner’s money management. If you don’t trust your partner with passwords and financial information, it’s another sign that you’re not ready to tie the knot. There can’t be a good relationship without honesty and trust. Both take time. If you don’t trust yourself or the other person, slow down. Look inside and see why confidence is lacking.
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IF YOU HAVE SECRETS TO HIDE
– Of course, not everyone needs to know everything about you, some things only concern you. But if you feel the need to hide yourself in a relationship, this is not a good sign. If you’re keeping a secret because you’re afraid your partner might judge you or reject you, then you’re not ready to commit to marriage. Absolute confidence is essential for a healthy life.
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IF YOU DON’T HAVE A LONG-TERM PLAN
– Getting married means you are ready to build a future together. Another sign that you’re not ready to get married is that you haven’t discussed a long-term vision for your relationship. We all come to our relationships with different expectations. Relationships and marriage in Turkey can mean different things to different people.
– Where do you see yourself living? Do you want to have children? Are you monogamous or polygamous? If you haven’t spent time with your partner thinking about what your life will be like in 10-20 years, you’re probably not ready for marriage.
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IF DIVORCE DOES NOT SEEM TO MATTER
– Marriage is not just about signing a piece of paper. Family is both a legal and emotional partnership in a social, financial and spiritual sense. Marriage is not something that can be erased by divorce, especially after you have children.
– On the other hand, no one marries for a divorce. Divorce can of course be a solution if things don’t work out, but having thoughts about divorce before you get married is a serious sign that you are not ready for marriage.
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YOU STILL HAVE SUSPICIONS?
– If there’s one thing you need to be sure about in this life, it’s that you’re marrying the right person. If you have any doubts, you should reconsider your decision. Do you see this relationship as your last chance to find love? Are you getting married in Turkey because you’re afraid of hurting your partner? Remember think in a relaxed mode about it carefully, and decide on your next event.
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Turkey's world-renowned organ transplant specialist. Dr. Demirbaş has 104 international publications and 102 national publications.
Physician's Resume:
Born on August 7, 1963 in Çorum, Prof. Dr. Alper Demirbaş has been continuing his work as the President of MedicalPark Antalya Hospital Organ Transplantation Center since 2008.
Prof. who performed the first tissue incompatible kidney transplant in Turkey, the first blood type incompatible kidney transplant, the first kidney-pancreas transplant program and the first cadaveric donor and live donor liver transplant in Antalya. Dr. As of August 2016, Alper Demirbaş has performed 4900 kidney transplants, 500 liver transplants and 95 pancreas transplants.
In addition to being the chairman of 6 national congresses, he has also been an invited speaker at 12 international and 65 national scientific congresses. Dr. Alper Demirbaş was married and the father of 1 girl and 1 boy.
Awards:
Eczacibasi Medical Award of 2002, Akdeniz University Service Award of 2005, Izder Medical Man of the Year Award of 2006, BÖHAK Medical Man of the Year Award of 2007, Sabah Mediterranean Newspaper Scientist of the Year Award of 2007, ANTIKAD Scientist of the Year Award of 2009, Social Ethics Association Award of 2010, Işık University Medical Man of the Year Award of 2015, VTV Antalya's Brand Value Award of 2015.
Certificates:
Doctor of Medicine Degree Hacettepe University Faculty of Medicine Ankara, General Surgeon Ministry of Health Turkey EKFMG (0-477-343-8), University of Miami School of Medicine Member of Multiple Organ Transplant, ASTS Multiorgan Transplant Scholarship. Lecturer at Kyoto University. Lecturer at University of Essen, Research assistant at the University of Cambridge .
Professional Members:
American Society of Transplant Surgeons, American Transplantation Society Nominated, Middle East and Southern Africa Council Transplantation Society 2007, International Liver Transplantation Association, Turkish Transplantation Association, Turkish Society of Surgery, Turkish Hepatobiliary Surgery Association.
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